Sunday Devotional, November 16, 2008
By: Kevin Keelan
What's up
CFP'ers?Today is my wife Julie and I seventeenth wedding anniversary. I thought I would talk about a few hard lessons I have learned over the years we have been married.
1- Consider your relationship an emotional bank account to where you make more deposits, than withdrawals.
2- Give 100% of yourself to your spouse
3- Don't expect 100% of your spouse until you have consistently given it.
Note: I'm still way overdrawn and somehow stuck around the 50% mark.
Time to make some deposits!
When our CFP friend Heather asked me earlier this week how my weekend went, I started to share with her how I really made a point of enjoying the small pleasures of being a husband and a dad this weekend.
Little things like, my little girl Carly (10 years old) awakening me with a very soft touch to my face and a rub on my back, than whispering in my ear "daddy, your coffee is ready"
Throwing the keys of my Fj Cruiser to my son Caleb (14yrs in Jan), and letting him show me his driving skills on a long dirt road.
A movie and dinner with my beautiful wife Julie at our favorite restaurant.
So often we try and try to reach and grasp the golden ring just missing it every time, frustrating to say the least.
I realize more and more each day: Even if I were to awake in a small bungalow the whisper of my little girl Carly would be as sweet as ever.
Even if the keys I tossed to my son Caleb were to a 1988 Buick, I know it's the journey that counts and not what we arrive in.
Even if the table Julie and I shared was a picnic table in the parking lot at Home Depot our hands would still reach across to meet.
6 years ago If you asked me where I would be today, it would be a whole different story.
So often I have been reluctant to accept what God has laid out in front of me because it didn't fit my dream or my vision.
His plan is sometimes uncomfortable, painful, and emotional. But, the results are always meaningful and fulfilling as He develops our character and abilities to grow in His wisdom.
I always wondered when my ship would come in, It came in this weekend; in the form of a whisper, a hand reaching out and a ride along a dirt road.
Hebrews 3:4 , For every house is built by someone, but God is the builder of everything.
Blessing, Kevin